If you want to avoid being Creepy, here are 11 good ways (tested by science!) to start a conversation with a girl online.7. Keep Your Subject Line and Message Short:
The subject line of your email or message is probably the most important part of starting a conversation with a girl online. If this doesn’t peak her interest, she most likely won’t read any further.
A study by Sidekick says the perfect subject line is unique to the recipient and has 30 characters or less, just to name a few suggestions.
Same goes for the entire message in general — keep it short!
6. “Hi”, “Hey”, or “Hello”: The Kiss of Death
If you want to be the most boring, unoriginal person who has ever reached out to this woman, then simply say “Hi, how are you?” While it may seem like a polite thing to ask, she isn’t the pizza delivery guy — she’s someone you have romantic feelings for.
''Whats up?'' can be a better option.
5. “Ur”, “Luv”, “Wat”: Forget Netspeak
We’re all busy people with busy schedules, which means phone calls are almost becoming obsolete and we use fewer and fewer words to get our point across.
However, that doesn’t mean what works for colleagues or siblings is what works in dating.
Listen — the way you text a friend should not be the way you text or message a woman you’re interested in.
“Ur realy hot. R U free Fri?” won’t work! The only exceptions to this rule are “haha” and “lol”.
And remember, proper punctuation is sexy and shows her that you’re at least somewhat literate.
4. Catch Her Off Guard With a Joke:
This is the hardest one to pull off, but it can work if you do it right. If you make a woman laugh, most of the hard work is done for you.
Arouse her curiosity by starting a joke and not finishing the punchline. She’ll be prompted to do it for you, or she’ll just be confused as hell and come back with “What?” which is always better than complete silence.
3. Mention Something Specific From Her Profile:
We’ve all heard it before, but I’ll say it again: if you send the same message to every girl, you won’t get a response. Period.
To avoid doing this, look over her profile, find something that makes her stand out, and bring that up in your message.
A study discovered that “favorite movies”, “hobbies”, and even “zombie” are some of the most effective words to use, and the best phrases to use with these words are “you mention”, “good taste”, and “noticed that”.
2. Compliment Her (But Not Her Appearance):
Women like being complimented when it’s done correctly, so don’t go for the obvious “you’re hot/sexy/cute/beautiful/gorgeous”. Instead, using general complimentary words like “cool”, “awesome”, or “fascinating”.
3. Talk About Your Common Interests:
If you have something in common with a girl you’re interested and don’t bring that up when you reach out to her online, then you’ve wasted a huge opportunity.
Talking about similar interests can prompt a quick response from her as well as get her to let her guard down and be more trusting of your intentions, especially if it’s something not a lot of people have an interest in.
1. Be Self-Deprecating and Honest:
Research shows men who use words like “sorry”, “apologize”, and “awkward” in their messages have more success.
If you aren’t a wordsmith, just say so instead of trying to force it. It shows that you’re humble.
While it’s hard to guarantee that all of these tips will work 100% of the time, they’re definitely a good place to start.
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