It is recorded in the scripture that "...he who finds a wife, finds a good thing." But in my own emphasis, I say
"...he who finds the wife of his youth finds a treasure of inestimable value."
Most times, some of us hardly get prepared for love, relationship or marriage before we get into it. Either we are not prepared enough, not confident enough, not ready to stay committed or even the fear of uncertainty that lies ahead. Needless to remind us that living, breathing and eating itself is a risk on its own. All it takes to enjoy your love life is to trust God and follow His leading.
I have no intention to bore you with the epistle of how I met my lover but I’ll say that even before I met her, I had a sense of purpose and confidence, that, if we eventually cross path, it will be a heaven on earth experience. Mind you, we’re still in the first stage of our love. I am not saying it is a "love at first sight" kind of a thing, that Nollywood and Bollywood have taught us. But I am talking of experiencing peace beyond reasonable doubt as the Holy Spirit lay in my heart the thought of an
AFFAIR .
To the guys, before you enter into any relationship… I mean, that which you set your mind on to be spiritually fruitful, be sure your self esteem is high, because every other thing builds on this. Get your sense of purpose straight and solid and you’re on your way to fulfillment. And be ready to make some sacrifices, except your salvation.
To the ladies: be sure you’re growing; mentally, spiritually, emotionally and even physically. Who says men, I mean spiritual guys, don’t like beautiful women. Mind you, being beautiful alone is not enough just like being intellectually sound won’t be enough. Ensure the collection of your "wife-material" is updated and be ready to show some respect, because, above all else, that's what men seek most from their women…
