How Important Is Trust? (story)

Jessica and Randy have been lovers for 6 years. Jessica was studying college while Randy was working on a construction site. When Jessica graduated, they agreed to get married and start a new life together. When Jessica delivered a baby, it gives them new hope for a better and happier family.

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After 2 years of being parents, Randy was assigned and went to another country for his work and Jessica was left behind with their 2 year old son. Despite the distance, they talked every night on Skype like they are not too far with each other and it was a routine. But after 8 months of not being together, Randy was confused why Jessica can only go online about once or twice a week. She always says she was busy, on her work, with the chores or even with their son, but because of his love and trust of his wife, he understood.
When Randy went home after 14 months, he wondered why his wife always on a rush saying she has lots of things to do. Randy starts to doubt Jessica, so he followed her to her office only to find out she wasn’t there. He starts calling and there’s no answer and became worried. He went to Jessica’s family to inform them that Jessica is missing and they immediately took a move to find Jessica but only to find out that Jessica tried to move out and leave  her family and be with her new guy. Randy’s trust shattered, and there was no turning back. They were lost in a sea of suspicion and secrecy.

Many experts say that the biggest problem with cheating isn’t necessarily the sexual or intimacy relationship, but rather the betrayal of trust.

Have you heard the saying “Promises means everything. But once it is Broken, sorry means Nothing”? It is a very simple quote, but it does make a great impact between you and the person you are in a relationship with, even with your friends and family. I have heard many people went through a lot lately, some of them failed and some succeeded. But mostly they failed to keep up on their relationship. Why? Maybe the reason is one of them have been deceived by their partner or friend to the extent they broken their trust in them.
Trust is the foundation for a healthy relationship. When you trust someone, it goes with love, respect and confidence. But when it’s broken, it replaces with anger, grudge, doubt or even destroy a relationship. Trust provides confidence on every relationship, it eases your mind without fear. Without trust, it is impossible to build a healthy relationship.
Once trust has been lost, what can we do to get it back? Can a broken trust be healed? Yes, but it will take a LOT of time and hark work. Trust is like a paper that once it has been crumpled, it can never be perfect again.
At the end, it all depends on how far you can go to rebuild that trust. After all, It takes two people who are willing to commit and fight to get your relationship back together. To have a healthy relationship: communication, understanding, and prayers are a must.
Being faithful: a simple word that means everything.

Written by: LaneLamani
Posted by: DatingYouths Amin