Knowing your Love Language.

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In as much as we are all rational being, we all have differences, which should be used for the betterment of human nature, not to envy or destroy the nature. Ranging from gifts to sweet words, hugs and the likes, serving some other people is enough to make them love you.

Knowing our love language, not only helps to understand who we are but to bring understanding of who our partner is to us. Below are 5 highlighted love languages to look out for in anyone we come in contact with, be it a friend or crush.

1. PHYSICAL TOUCH: diversity in choices is what makes the world go round. Touching some people irritates them as much as it gives the feeling of comfort and romance to some others. Hugging, simple kissing, holding of hands, e.t.c is enough statement to bring some closer to you. Mind you, to satisfy the other party showing all this, there is a need to give his/her love language too. A little work is just required to know what the person really wants.


2. QUALITY TIME: spending 8 of 24 hours with someone sounds crazy, right? but I think its worth it. Gisting, chatting, laughing, giggling or even just staring at each other in silence makes it feel like they've been communicating for long. Do you wonder why some ladies/guys insist they speak over the phone 10times a day? Don't blame it on them, its just their nature.

3. WORD OF AFFIRMATION: all ye text message demander, here is your class. Yes, this is the language you can ever understand. Some do believe strongly in the saying that "if you love me, don't just show me, tell me." Am a strong believer in this too, that's just who I am. Have you checked through a phone and read the message section just to see different messages from a single name? That alone will tell you who you are dealing with.

4. GIFTS: as funny as it sounds, many ladies fall into this category. Apart from them gold diggers, some ladies, no matter how small the gift, gets attracted to you. Mind you, its advisable to reciprocate for the sake of balance in the relationship. She might not thank you for the touch, words or time. But little gift of cards, pictures, flowers can go a long way.

5. ACT OF
SERVICE: many guys have found themselves in the friendzone while in service of opposite sex hoping its gonna bring the attraction. Many of us even go beyond our power to see that we satisfy some ladies. As some sharp ladies do, since that's not their language, they start taking advantage of such men. Nonetheless, many still appreciates this act of love more than the previously listed. That is just who they are, your fleet of cars, accessories and luxury doesn't really count much to them until you serve them.